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This football book is strangely dull, yet curiously compelling. Its title causes confusion. The Dear England title already is used by a successful play, an future TV show, and a public letter penned by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This edition of Dear England isn’t formally related to any of those. It exists as an anomaly in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about leadership: a classically uninspiring top-level coach trope that Southgate adheres to persistently, using the words “leader”, “leading” or “leadership” at least 500 times across 336 pages.

Inquiries Posed

“What are leaders? What do leaders do? What insights do leaders have?” Southgate inquires at the outset, setting out his stall, but declining to explore “Why are leaders?”, topics presumably saved for a second book.

Otherwise, this book features a notable absence at its core. It’s a venture in subtly confrontational personal vindication, in nearly but not entirely saying the actual thing, skipping adeptly from lingering grievance to raw emotion across a collection of data visualizations, management jargon and digressions about historical figures.

Immersion

Engaging with the text is like listening to your loved ones having a mannered but profoundly personal argument in the nearby area while you’re attempting to pay attention on a business seminar called “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also challenging to stop reading, as Southgate keeps drifting near to a topic you truly desire to hear about, before abruptly changing tack.

Revelations

There are always news headlines in works of this nature, explained by the peeled-eyeball fascination with the role of England manager. The most notable instances encompass: the manager resolved he was absolutely going to quit as England manager after supporters hurled containers at him at the European Championship; he nearly decided to withdrawing from the game at mid-match against Bulgaria in 2019 after his squad members were targeted with slurs; he pioneered the approach of specialist dead-ball trainers and the entire league in the top division is now following his lead; he has now lost his passion for football, a startling revelation thrown away in a brief section at the end.

Leading England through a era of fury, optimism, turmoil and lockdown was a grueling ordeal. The scars are evidently still unhealed.

Commonplace Material

Otherwise, the content is flooded with an AI-style verbal clutter of standard guidance discourse. Review editions of this publication were provided with critics under secrecy pacts ahead of release, likely out of apprehension someone might leak that “tough talks can, by their nature, be tough”, that you should always consider the consequences, that leadership happens where change intersects with understanding.

Genuine Feeling

Readers will find nevertheless authentic sentiment within. Leading England through a era of fury, optimism, turmoil and confinement was a grueling ordeal. The wounds are obviously still raw, albeit conveyed in a jargon-laden reinvention of the classic football manager story: how my decisions were correct about each issue throughout.

Detailed Instances

The publication’s initial chapter, Trojan-horsed as exciting recollections of the final of the tournament, is all about how successful the manager really was at substitutes (the primary common complaint being he wasn’t effective at altering the lineup). Later, he delves into great depth about how he managed the deciding game of 2021 flawlessly – notably the unsuccessful tiebreaker – because he adhered to a set protocol, which implies that bringing on youthful talents very late to take the most important shot of their existence was reasonable and correct.

That approach was validated by a winning shootout against the Swiss team in a subsequent competition after a fixture where England spent the entire match looking as if they were trying to don a sweater the backwards. “Our commanding performance in that tiebreaker was absolutely exciting,” the author states, amid comparing the display to US Navy Seals eliminating a high-profile target. Dear me.

Missed Opportunities

On the occasions we approach to a revelation, the manager withdraws from specifying people or providing the substance. We hear there were problematic England squad members who required more attention, maybe because they were indulged at the start of their professional journeys. But as you lean forward eagerly, the author is quickly diverting into a topic called The Culture Code, which asserts that instead of a assemblage of attributes or values, organizational ethos is in fact something that is formed by, unfortunately, please, we’ve heard enough.

Highlights

Among the stronger bits are when Southgate discusses about the gradual nature of developing mental toughness in young people, or how he tried to define national identity more coherently and more positively than anyone else in the public eye. Best of all, there is a genuinely gripping description of that traumatic match in the Bulgarian capital where England’s players of color were subjected to vile treatment (and afterwards supported vigorously by their leader).

Heartfelt Conclusion

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